Euthanasia or putting your beloved pet to sleep is one of the hardest and most painful decisions you will ever have to face for your animal. It is a serious decision that not only affects the welfare of your animal, but also the welfare and emotional wellbeing of you and your family.
How will I know when it’s time to say good-bye?
When your pet’s quality life deteriorates such that it no longer finds joy in the activities it once loved, seems distant and detached from family life, experiences more painful days than good days or is no longer eating, drinking, or unable to control its bowels, you may need to consider euthanasia. For some owners, they develop a special “sense” when their pet is communicating with them. Their pet may whisper to them or have that special look in their eyes… “I’m tired of fighting, please let me go.” “My life is complete, I’m ready.”
If you are feeling confused or have mixed feelings about putting your beloved pet to sleep, talk to your family, a close friend, and your veterinarian. Your veterinarian not only understands the special human-animal bond you share with your pet, but can offer you advice on your pet’s condition, whether he/she is in pain, long-term prognosis for your pet’s condition, and whether there are any medical or surgical options available to treat your pet’s condition. Similarly, if your pet is terminally ill, in great pain, or seriously injured, or if treatment and emotional costs is beyond one’s means, euthanasia is a valid option. Your veterinarian can provide you guidance, but the ultimate decision has to be made by you.
Where and how is euthanasia performed?
Euthanasia can only be performed by veterinarian. It is a non-reversible process and requires signed consent by the owner. Euthanasia may be performed in a veterinary clinic setting or as a house call service provided by your veterinarian. Some pets and owners feel more comfortable having the procedure done at one’s home surrounded by family or in the pet’s favourite resting spot. Euthanasia is performed by administering an overdose of an intravenous anaesthetic agent. It is a quick, painless, and peaceful process that stops the heart within seconds. In some situations, a pet may need a sedative beforehand if your pet is anxious or aggressive. Please talk to your veterinarian beforehand if you have any concerns.
What happens during euthanasia?
Although the euthanasia solution is fast-acting and painless, please be aware that some pets may gasp, vocalise, have tremors, urinate, or defecate after the heart has stopped. This is a normal and natural process that sometimes happens following death. Your pet has already crossed over.
Should I, family, children or close friends be present?
Whether you, family, children or close friends wish to be present during euthanasia is personal decision and differs for everyone. Some people find closure being present with their pet during the process and others find it too painful. Some choose to be with their pet afterwards. Talk openly with your family, friends, and your vet what your wishes are.
Making Final Preparations
After your pet has passed on, you can choose to have a home burial for your pet or you can have your pet cremated. You can bury, keep or scatter your pet’s ashes in his or her favourite spot (e.g. favourite garden, beach, park, etc.) You can also honour the memory of your pet with special pet memorials. Speak to your veterinarian to help you make final preparations.
Dealing with Grief
Everyone deals with grief in different ways. You may experience feelings of disbelief, anger, guilt, sadness, anxiety, and depression. Not everyone may understand the bond and special relationship that you had with your pet. It is ok to grieve the loss of your beloved pet. The time it takes to heal is different for everyone. Allow yourself and family members to talk openly about their feelings over the loss and death of their beloved pet.
If you feel that your grief and sorrow is too much, please seek professional help. There are many trained professionals who can help you deal with the grieving process. There are also online communities, support groups, and hotlines to help people deal with pet loss and grief. Speak to your vet about local support in your community. Your veterinarian understands the bond you had with your pet and the loss you have suffered. Below are some links provided for educational and informative purposes on dealing with the loss of a beloved pet:
Australian Links
Bereavement Counselling for Pet Owners (Dr. David Foote) (Sydney)
Beyond Blue (Info and Referral Services)
Faithful Friends (Online Pet Memorials)
Grief Line (Anonymous Online and Telephone Counselling)
Lifeline (24 hour Telephone Counselling)
Worldwide Links
Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (Online support community)
Best Friends Network (Online support community)
Pet Loss Grief Support (Online support community)